Re: the hair thing-It's a common problem that I see ALL the time- modern women do not like to cover their hair. In modern society, a woman's hair defines who/what she is, and most women spend a huge amount of effort on making sure their hair looks good. To cover it over completely is just too much to ask.
I have women rent the 15th C. V neck gown and then flat out refuse to wear the escoffion because it covers their hair. Either that or they wear it with their hair showing, like the girl in the photo. Heck, there's a photo in "The medieval Soldier" of a girl who's wearing a kerchief hippie-style, so that her hair shows.....
In this case, I think this gal will eventually realize that her hair isn't appropriate, that she doesn't "look like the pictures". It will just take time and exposure..... *sigh*
Gwen